“Sexy Nights At Home”

How long has it been since you had a sexy night at home. How long has it been since you have taken time out for your relationship and put everything else on hold instead of the other way around.

OK I can already hear you now. The kids need feeding and bathing and putting to bed. Then there is the washing  and cleaning away the dinner dishes. Not to mention feeding the cat and dogs Oh and don’t forget the fish before it is time to get the lunches ready for tomorrow and fall exhausted into bed after a quick shower. Phew!!!!

Yes life can definitely get in the way. But how do you get all that stuff done and manage to get your hair done and have the occasional catch up with friends and take the kids to their sports days.

YOU MAKE PLANS!

So if this is what it takes to have a sexy night in with your partner, husband or lover then that this is what it takes. You can plan it as a surprise for them or let them share in the planning.

Maybe you can schedule an intimate dinner together or make time to give each other a sensual relaxing massage with some luxuriously scented oil. Take a bubble bath together and use lots of little candles around the bathroom don’t worry if the tub isn’t big the closer the better. Just make the date schedule the time into your calendar like you do for your work and other life commitments and enjoy.

Make a shopping list right now for what you will need for those special intimate sexy nights together.

Massage Oil - try the essential oils blended form exotic stimulating scents. Vanilla, sandalwood and rose are fragrances that have been used as aphrodisiacs for centuries. Most importantly make it a fragrance that is pleasing to you and your partner.

Candles - are sooooo much more romantic then the glaring light bulb so make sure you have loads on hand. Today candles come in hundreds if not thousands of designs and sizes. Scented or unscented. Just make sure they are out of harms way if things get a little active.

Food – is a very important part of your plan. You certainly do not want to run out of energy and depending on what you choose you could even include some edible body paint just to add to the pleasure of the night. Chocolates, strawberries and cream and what about champagne.

Set the stage – send the kids to a friends or family unplug the phone and remember the cell phone as well. Make a Do Not Disturb sign and hang it out. Do anything you have to so you are ensured the privacy you need to focus completely on each other.

Once the date is set commit to it, no other commitments may interfere as this is a truly important time for you both.

ENJOY

Have a great time…Jenny